Comments on: Ask the Doctor: Dreaming and Your Marriage http://newsletter.marriage.eharmony.com/2007/05/doctordreaming/ Free Marriage Articles, Advice and Tips For Better Communication, Less Fighting and More Intimacy Tue, 05 Feb 2008 15:56:46 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: bashirAbdi http://newsletter.marriage.eharmony.com/2007/05/doctordreaming/comment-page-1/#comment-1824 bashirAbdi Thu, 06 Sep 2007 06:27:44 +0000 http://newsletter.marriage.eharmony.com/2007/05/doctordreaming/#comment-1824 This is very helpful and intersting experiance in one's life thanks to the eharmony family and friends This is very helpful and intersting experiance in one’s life
thanks to the eharmony family and friends

]]> By: Jeff http://newsletter.marriage.eharmony.com/2007/05/doctordreaming/comment-page-1/#comment-1156 Jeff Fri, 17 Aug 2007 23:19:17 +0000 http://newsletter.marriage.eharmony.com/2007/05/doctordreaming/#comment-1156 Michele I am not sure were you live but in Plano , Texas they have a group that puts on a Marraige Bootcamp. I was just Like your Husband until my wife and I attended this program after someone from our church sponsard us. So I have three words of advice 1. Go to This Bootcamp ( If you need a sponser email me jeffsspot@verizon.net) 2. Follow Maries Advice 3. If and when you tell your husband that you forgivr him from somthing he does don't ever bring it up again no matter how much he makes you mad. Oh one more thing its your job to Love him its Gods Job to Change Him Michele

I am not sure were you live but in Plano , Texas they have a group that puts on a Marraige Bootcamp. I was just Like your Husband until my wife and I attended this program after someone from our church sponsard us. So I have three words of advice 1. Go to This Bootcamp ( If you need a sponser email me jeffsspot@verizon.net) 2. Follow Maries Advice 3. If and when you tell your husband that you forgivr him from somthing he does don’t ever bring it up again no matter how much he makes you mad. Oh one more thing its your job to Love him its Gods Job to Change Him

]]> By: Marie http://newsletter.marriage.eharmony.com/2007/05/doctordreaming/comment-page-1/#comment-1071 Marie Wed, 01 Aug 2007 22:14:32 +0000 http://newsletter.marriage.eharmony.com/2007/05/doctordreaming/#comment-1071 To begin with, make up your mind to be happy and take care of yourself first. Next, make changes in your life (i.e. reduce your drinking and spending, spend time with the kids...) You are the only person responsible for your happiness and health. If he isn't meeting your needs, don't cheat on him! And reach out for a girlfriend. Draw positive support from friends around you. Say thank you when he does something "right" and be there to laugh with him. Life will still be hard and he will still be the same, but by changing your attitude you will feel much better and be able to make some hard choices about the other aspects of your life. To begin with, make up your mind to be happy and take care of yourself first. Next, make changes in your life (i.e. reduce your drinking and spending, spend time with the kids…) You are the only person responsible for your happiness and health. If he isn’t meeting your needs, don’t cheat on him! And reach out for a girlfriend. Draw positive support from friends around you. Say thank you when he does something “right” and be there to laugh with him. Life will still be hard and he will still be the same, but by changing your attitude you will feel much better and be able to make some hard choices about the other aspects of your life.

]]> By: Michele http://newsletter.marriage.eharmony.com/2007/05/doctordreaming/comment-page-1/#comment-1068 Michele Wed, 01 Aug 2007 19:30:44 +0000 http://newsletter.marriage.eharmony.com/2007/05/doctordreaming/#comment-1068 My husband and I have been married for 10 years this December. I want to continue being married to him, but it is getting hard to cope, we are in financial ruin, we don't spend time together, we drink too much to mask our issues. It is becoming a real challenge everyday to be happy together. He has a history of a neglected childhood and it really is hurting us. He does not want to spend time with his son, he would rather spend it with his friends. I don't want to control him, I just want him to be more emotionally connected with me and his children, we have tried to seek guidance through church and christ, but that has fizzled out as well. we need some kind of resource to help us out, our insurance does not pay for counseling, Please help us!!!!!!!!! My husband and I have been married for 10 years this December. I want to continue being married to him, but it is getting hard to cope, we are in financial ruin, we don’t spend time together, we drink too much to mask our issues. It is becoming a real challenge everyday to be happy together. He has a history of a neglected childhood and it really is hurting us. He does not want to spend time with his son, he would rather spend it with his friends. I don’t want to control him, I just want him to be more emotionally connected with me and his children, we have tried to seek guidance through church and christ, but that has fizzled out as well. we need some kind of resource to help us out, our insurance does not pay for counseling, Please help us!!!!!!!!!

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