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Releasing Control
July 2007

If you are like most married women, there’s a long laundry list of things you’d change about your husband. Listen to Today’s Marriage Minute and a quick reminder from a real couple who can relate. They’ve been married for 22 years and just happen to be nationally renowned relationship experts too!

Inside the Mind of the Married Man: Avoiding Conflict
July 2007

She says, “We need to talk.” He looks for the nearest exit. Sound familiar? The reasons behind his tendency to avoid conflict might surprise you. Discover the keys to a more satisfying outcome the next time you want to broach a tough topic in your marriage!

Your Money, Your Marriage
July 2007

Statistics show that most couples who divorce cite “money problems” as the top factor in the breakup. Clearly, addressing this issue is like money in the bank. Explore tips to decrease the fighting and increase the compromise when it comes to your joint finances.

Is it time to give up?
June 2007

Marriage is work. You know that. You live it. But do you know how much work it really takes? Or how to get more results for all that effort you put in? Explore a fresh perspective on how to make your marriage work better – for you.

How to deal with husbands that are…well…less than perfect
May 2007

Many readers have been writing us about Mr. Right turning into Mr. Oh-So-Wrong. And our expert hears you loud and clear! Get some critical perspective on the husband conundrum and the best ways to deal. No more nagging, criticism, or complaining required!

Inside the Mind of the Married Man: How to Teach Him Some New Tricks
May 2007

Interested in getting more of what you want from your husband and less of what you don’t? Stop doing the same things and expecting different results. Consider borrowing some fresh techniques from behavior specialists who say changing behavior patterns is the best way to change your marriage.

The Four Horsemen of Marital Apocalypse
May 2007

Experts say it’s not the amount of conflict in a marriage that determines its success or failure. Rather it’s how a couple fights that is the best predictor of divorce. The road to irreconcilable differences is paved with specific fighting tactics, known as the “Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse.” Are you guilty?

In-Laws: The Step by Step Cure
May 2007

Critical? Cold? Smothering? In-law complaints run the gamut from minor annoyances to major dysfunction. Experts estimate three-quarters of all married couples will be plagued with in law trouble at some point. Discover the step by step antidote to toxic in-law relations.

Her Past & Your Future Together
May 2007

Living together is going to be frustrating at times. That’s a given in any relationship. Learn what shapes a woman’s views on her marriage. And how this perspective will help keep the peace in the future.

Are You a Male Nag?
April 2007

Ever stop to consider that she might nag you because you nag her? Find out if you fit the bill and 5 tips on how to get what you want from your wife — no nagging needed.